

According to a study by a prominent American
university, skill accounts for 15%
of the reasons someone lands a job,
excels on the job or earns a raise
or promotion. What makes up the other
85%? Attitude.
Attitude affects everything: your schoolwork,
your job performance, your personal relationships,
your self-esteem, your outlook on the future—the
list is endless. Considering the tremendous
impact your attitude has on life, it is
well worth the effort to make it the best
it can be. Here are some simple but powerful
ways to improve your attitude starting
right now:
Believe it’s possible. Whether
you think you can or you think you can’t,
you’re right. Case in point: In
the early 1950's, an Englishman named
Roger Banister announced to the world
he would run the mile in under four minutes.
Everyone, including sports experts and
the medical establishment, told him it
couldn’t be done. But in 1954,
he did it. Within a year, more than 30
people accomplished the same feat. When
asked how it was possible for so many
to run that fast so soon, Banister said, "It
was never a physical barrier, it was
a mental barrier."

Raise yourself up. Lift
up your smile, your eyes and your talk.
Rather than plodding through the day,
make it a point to be more upbeat.
Build other people up. Talk
about good news with your friends and
family. Give compliments. Offer to help.
After every interaction, ask yourself, “Does
that person feel better because he talked
to me?”
Find the good. We
can’t control what happens to us
in life, but we can certainly choose
how we react. Instead of looking for
someone to blame when things go wrong,
look for the lessons to be learned and
use them to prevent mistakes in the future.
As Victor Frankl, a Nazi concentration
camp survivor, said, "Everything can
be taken from a man but the last of the
human freedoms—to choose one's attitude
in any given set of circumstances, to choose
one's own way." |